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Friendship

The first post of my new blog - i want to dedicate to all my friends :)

Friendship always is my priority.

A good friend can last forever, and will not left you aside. Thus, it is hard to have a good friend. In our life, perhaps we have no chance to meet a good friend. How a friend can walk with you forever? You might have a good friend right now, but how long it will last? Again..friendship is a very subjective and emotional issue...

The more you put in effort in your friendship, the tougher the friendship will be. Everyone is changing, and no one will stay the same. Even how hard you try, the feeling toward the friend might still be affected somehow.

When the friendship goes deeper, the emotional bond is getting stronger. When you have such kind of friends, you will be afraid to lose them. Friendship is a two way, win-win situation. But, it is impossible to obtain equality in the friendship. And, you will realize that it getting harder to keep a friend.

Friends always place a different role in our life. Some of them can have fun together, some of them can let us to show frustration on, some of them can only be classmates. If a friendship is purely non beneficence, i don't think so. Somehow, we will exchange certain benefit from our friends.

To all my dear friends, you already put your footprints in my heart. No matter how long our friendship will be, i still won't forget. I might not be a considerate person, but i seriously treat my friends honestly.

Thank you, my friends :)

"The greatest thing to do is to sacrifice for friends"

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