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曾经,有个朋友对我说:你的部落格都是关于友情的,没什么好看”。。虽然,我有点失落,不过我自己明白友情对我来说是很重要的。谈到重要,没笔墨能形容。在这夜深人静的夜晚,没有星星月亮的陪伴,只有冷气的嗖嗖声,及我打字的声音。。这时刻,应该是最好让我写作的时候。虽然没有文采飞扬的文笔,不过只有我内心想要表达的思绪。。


友情代表着人与人之间的感情,也意味着情感上互换的交流。对我而言,我把朋友的定义看的深远。朋友是什么?我讲的是感觉。舒服的感觉是让我继续走友谊之路的必要因素。我跟你做朋友,并不是你很有钱,很聪明,很美丽或等等。。只要我们谈得来,我就会想要维持。。


友谊永固,是我们小学纪念册最常出现的成语。不过,毕业后的我们,又有谁是留下来的?小学朋友,没有几个是有联络的,就算在街上遇上,都会有不好意思地感觉。那么,当时懵懂的我们,只懂得利用成语,却不懂得这个成语真正的意思。


空手说白话,是我们最拿手的。许多的朋友与我们擦身而过,小学到大学,也认识许多朋友,不过大多数是泛泛之交。朋友也像季节,夏季就热情如火,之间的感情飚到最高峰;春季就有一丝丝的爱意,朋友之间也比较的亲密;秋季犹如平淡的一壶茶,没有太大的变化,就只有朋友之间的默契;冬季让友谊冻结,也许渐渐疏远,或友情断了线。


我自认,并不是一个无私的朋友。我对朋友有一定的期待。我会去争取,去维持一段感情,只要我把你当成值得的朋友。最近,妈妈问起了我之前读书好友,我只能回答我已经不知道他们的状况了。换另外一句话来说,双方都没有想要维持友谊的动力。我尝试了,没有成果的回答就代表普通朋友的诞生。


很难得的是,好朋友会与你同甘共苦,不过,我会感到愧疚却感动当朋友不惜一切的与我同在。我不习惯也不想让朋友与我一起痛苦。我想,其他人也许也是这样。每当有事时,除非迫不得已,才会找朋友帮忙。不过,当自己情绪上的低落,也许只是朋友一丁点的关心就已经足够。我接受了朋友许多的爱,让我受宠若惊。


写这的心情故事,其实是要表达我对朋友的看待。今天,我又不经意的让我一个很珍惜的朋友伤心。朋友的不愉快,也造就了我的情绪受到影响。虽然,他表面上对我说他很好,不过我以感觉判断并不是。对不起。


朋友,本来就会有沟通上的问题。当你在乎他时,你就会比较的敏感。当他生气时,或伤心时,就代表她真的很在乎你。友情的玻璃球,虽然破了又破,不过还是可以以缺陷美来欣赏的。我还是很在乎这份友情。


谢谢你的爱,朋友


Hui Ru

Comments

  1. 很喜欢你用四季来形容友情。很有意义。
    有时候,朋友是要靠一点点的默契,缘分,珍惜,牺牲,谅解与关心。这一些的一点点,可以让友情增值。最重要的是,两方要懂得如何去经营。

    世界上没有什么感情,是不需要心灵的经营的。我相信,有情也一样。

    谢谢你,我的朋友。
    你让我看到,我会遗忘的东西。
    那就是,对别人简单的爱。=)

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  2. 谢谢你,你写的让我有一丝丝的感动哦

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  3. 我爱你,虽然你常常情绪化,有点难搞。我还是爱你。

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