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读后语 《手心里的祝福》

假期绝对是让我 充实的日子。没得上网,就翻一翻橱柜,找出了我未读的励志故事书。空闲时,课业读物绝对放一边,或者那些死板的-我绝对没兴趣去看。我爱看励志书,因为它很故事性,从中也不忘得让读者了解人生的道理或生存之道。它的诠释,让我的情感也一起的沸腾。书能够让我爱不释手,就是因为我对故事结局的期待。这本,王志强的著作-手心里的祝福,让我想写下我的读后感。 为何叫做手心里的祝福呢?故事环绕着两个现况。一,讲述着这本书的主角-林亦杰被送入感化院之前的所作所为。二,讲述着林亦杰被感化的成果,这个成果化为一种原动力,这就是他被吩咐写信给一个不认识却患了血癌的小妹妹,并给与她鼓励。之间他们以信的交流,显示着对方都重见曙光与希望。 林亦杰,来之不温暖的家庭。爸爸忙着应酬,妈妈却沉迷于股票。他,有一个很要好的妹妹。受到物质上的满足的他,没有得到父母的关爱也无所谓。叛逆期的时段,有一次被流氓的欺压而渐渐变成了他们的死党。他,越陷越深-是因为他在他们身上看到了义气。有福同享,有难同当。他再也不害怕,不寂寞-因为他找到他的归属感。 这种的归属感,非良性。因为,他变得了暴力。他沉迷于烟酒。他非常的享受当别人叫他“杰哥”。他变成了流氓。他,不再感受自卑,反而认为他所做的一切是理所当然的。就算,他的父母要离婚,他也无所谓,因为他可以投靠他们。他,杀了人。一切,如梦初醒。。他,无法面对他的家人 在感化院里,他受到一个长官的爱护。为了让陌生妹妹能够积极的面对癌症,他以幽默的手法抖她开心。很喜欢一句话。有爱的心,就有希望。心理学可以医治很多人的心,医生就只能医治身体的病痛。所以,要好起来,有希望的心是非常重要的。 在爱的环境里,一个人的心智也不一样的。一个拥有神的爱的人,也会更加拥有爱的力量,想要去辅助别人。一个充满爱的人,就会想要分享爱。受到一个陌生人的爱,这个爱的魔力也比较的强。感受到神的爱的人,也对生命充满着希望。 每个人也许更本懂或不懂得爱,不过爱是由生俱来的。如何去爱,更本没有一个定点。用自己的方式去爱,才是最真实的。 诚恳地心,就不需要担心别人体会不到你的爱。回应的爱,是最珍贵的。失去了,才会去了解。 当你越认识一个人时,爱也会变困难了。因为,你爱的人或爱你的人也渐渐的对你对自己有要求。比较之前与现在,就会去衡量爱的有多深,多少。爱,可能变痛苦。因为,你不知道该给,或不给。给多,或给少。爱...

失眠

辗转难眠,睡不好,又睡不着。。 少了风扇的旋转,地板还是冰冷的。。 我的手,也是。。 冰冷的手,为何没有冰冷的心呢? 脑袋特别的清醒,但是却给了我一双疲惫的眼睛。。 事情总是没有两全其美, 我要入眠,却失眠了。。 我要头脑简单,却更复杂了。。 我要。。却得到不要。。 没想到,嗜好就是睡觉的我,也会失眠。。 失眠并不好受,有理由的失眠更加的不好受。。 理由,这也许更本并不是一个理由。。 死脑袋,又发生故障。。 让我睡吧,我不要有头脑,我不要有思绪,我不要有情感。。 原来,失眠就是这样。。

Movie: UP

Genre: Adventure, Animation Producer: Pixar Animation Studios This movie started off with a young shy guy, Carl Fredickson who fell in love with an eccentric girl, Ellie. Both of them are the super fan of Charles Muntz, the adventure explorer who proclaimed to bring back the live creature for his ruined reputation. The love is just simple. "Cross your heart" - Ellie wanted Carl to promise to bring her to Paradise Falls where Muntz been to. Cross your heart is a swear that Carl made for Ellie. I was touched by their romance and love toward each others. When they were old, finally Carl managed to buy air fare to South America for his wife, sadly his wife died off. Carl was sturbornly refused to sell their cartoon dream house to developer, for no other reason, it is only how Carl showed his love toward Ellie. He was sturborn, but is all about love and promise that he has with his wife. He was summoned to court for deliberately hurt other (the mail box was accidentally destroye...

Tanjung Sepat & Sepang Gold Coast

Initially, we only planned to go Sepang Gold Coast, also called as Bagan Lalang Beach which located at the strait of Malacca, Sepang. It is a half developed place, whereas more development need to be made in order to attact more tourists. It took us around 1 and half hour from KL till Sepang (you may follow this location map: http://wikitravel.org/en/Bagan_Lalang ). After doing research through google, we found out that Bagan Lalang is very nearby Tanjung Sepat, which only 2o minutes away, hence we decided to have Tanjung Sepat + Sepang Gold Coast a day trip. The sea water definitely is not clean, is quite polluted. It is a good place to stroll around especially for family, couples or friends. Wind wasn't that strong, our kite can't even stay on sky for 5 minutes, so it is kind of disappointing. However, I like the white and smooth sand. I love stepping on sand, and playing some childhood game on sand. I always had a dream to collect seashell on the beach, catching crabs, build...

15 Malaysia: House by Linus Chung

Another short film for 15 Malaysia that I like. I like is because this film showed us the reality that we are facing through a small kid. What is your dream house? His dream house is to keep the house that his dad built. But, his dream wasn't appreciated by his teacher, and his hand made paper dream house has been destroyed by his friends. In reality, his house was destroyed by constructor, they are homeless. This film tried to portray a dream house ain't need to be big or expensive, most importantly what is the most valuable thing that you want to keep for your house. The ending by the appearance of Yashim Ahmad, was a shocked for me. She didn't speak, but she just be there for the kid. I think the director wanted to show that at last there is someone there for you, even though no one support you. Although just a silence, it brings warmth to heart.

郑丁贤‧巧克力

新洲日报评论家,郑丁贤对“巧克力”的看法,看得我鼻子酸酸的。。 “15马来西亚”短片,播了两部。如果问说看到了甚么,我的回答是“自己”。 雅斯敏阿末的遗作《巧克力》,经营杂货店的华裔家庭,母亲要男孩(儿子)离开“这里”,因为“这里”不属於你,留下来没有前途。 男孩则因“这里”还有很多朋友,不愿离开;他反而置疑母亲要他走,是否因为母亲有了男朋友。 爭吵中,一位包头巾的马来少女来到杂货店买电池和巧克力。男孩被温柔的少女吸引,氛围缓和下来。 突然间,母亲尖锐的声音从后头传出:“你和那个马来婆讲这样久干甚么?” 气氛一时又僵住,少女少带了5分钱,男孩冷酷的把巧克力拿回来。 少女失望的离开,男孩想要追出去,把巧克力给她;这时,母亲的声音又响起;男孩打消念头,留下一些空白、遗憾。 就是这么一个2分多钟的小故事,或者,还不成为故事,只是一个片断。 这可以是故事的片断,也可以是社会的片断。 雅斯敏抓到了很多大马华人的疏离感,以及情感的矛盾。 “这里”没有给予公平的机会,不会有前途。离开“这里”,是最好的出路。 然而,男孩对“这里”是有感情的。其他地方固然提供了奖学金和发展的机会;但是,那是一个陌生的地方,缺乏情感的联繫。 马来少女的出现,是一种触媒,代表了社会关係的连接。 不过,这种触媒只產生短暂的作用。母亲的声音,代表社会固有的成见,也是一股抗拒改变的力量,把一切带回原状。 看完之后,有一股凝重的感觉。 大家都不喜欢那位母亲的谈话(母亲始终没有现身,只听到她的声音);但是,几乎每个华人家庭,都带有这个影子。 大家也为男孩觉得遗憾,他应该更热情一些,不需要自我保留,自己设限。 的確,华人生活在马来西亚,太多瞻前顾后,碍手碍脚的想法;担心这个,害怕那个,尤其表现在社会和政治生活。 所以我说,大家可以从短片中看到的是“自己”。 雅斯敏的这部短片,是她观察到的华人生活在大马社会的矛盾;她没有提出方向或结论,或许她也没有主张。 她只是把问题点出来,让大家去思考。

15 Malaysia : Chocolate by Yasmin Ahmad

I don't know why, after I watched it..The music has brought me to an emotional state. It sounded sad. Enjoyed it. I Love the way Yashim Ahmad directed the film. A sudden shift of attention, from irritation to tenderness. The state of anger and love hocked up together. So, what do you think the message that this short film is trying to bring it out? Looking at the making of chocolate too :) You will realise more..how hard Yasmin Ahmad has tried to impact people in Malaysia.