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Decision @ Club

Decision - make for yourself or others ?
Sometimes, why certain people can't stop making decision for other people?
Sometimes, why people didn't give a chance for people to make their own decision?

Today, a discussion about joining a club...
To join or not..all depends on our own will...if our will is destroyed by others..we wouldn't feel nice..perhaps..we will turn down the person's expectation..perhaps..we will hurt others..

I always believe that it is a childish act to force a person to join a club..the objectives of club will not be achieved if we insisted in doing so...When you force someone, have you think of the person's feeling? Have you think of other people feeling? Do you think that it is the most persuasive way to change the person to follow your way?

Sometimes, we really love to join a club that interests us..but when we join it, we wouldnt feel happy or contented..it might be due to a lot of factors..such as dominant advisors, irresponsible committee members, boring activities and so on...then, we will feel disappointed..coz the club that we like doesn't satisfy our need..

What is the attractions that make me joining a club?
1. A sense of belonging
2. Fun, comfortable and exciting
3. Satisfaction in term of knowledge, skill, achievement

I am surprised that i am calm when i needed to deal with certain issue...But..everything is alr over and settled..

The touching sentence that i received today
"If you really want me to choose Best Buddies or P, i will choose Best Buddies"

Thank you for your trust in me and Best Buddies.. :D
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  1. sHanNaJanuary 8, 2009 at 12:54 PM

    wow. Touched.
    It's great that you have such members in your team. All the best to you and Best Buddies! ^^

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