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Respect

The current issue in my daily life - Respect. "Give it, to take it" Everyone deserves respect from others, and most importantly respect yourselves.

In interaction with human, the pattern of your communication could trigger the person to form an impression on you. For instance, you are highly proud of yourself, what other people might think of you? They are not you, they wouldn't know that your way of talking, and they wouldnt able to adapt to you way of talking.

Thus, the art of talking is indeed important.

In a club, there is differential roles for each position. It is a protocol that everyone will follow. No matter the person is your friend or not, everything must be clear cut. In a club, there is only people that work together. For instance, if you didnt show your respect to your head, and how your head will feel?

In the issue of prejudice or discrimination, everyone is unique and created by God. Why we wanted to stare at people with disabilities? Why we wanted to gossip about the minority group? Why we wanted to look down on our classmates who doesn't good in academic?

In the issue of promise and commitment, when you have given your promise to do a thing, you have to do it. Do you know that your empty promise show no respect to that person?

For me, if We dont respect others, it also shows that we don't respect ourselves.



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