"The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves"
We always believe that giving gifts to someone, celebrating birthday with someone, or having fun with someone and etc..It is all about LOVE...
But, when we do that, do we give our focused attention on that person? Do you value that person by giving the person the most precious asset - TIME?
We always claim or tell our friends "I love you", but do your friends really feel it? Or just say it because you THINK that he/she is your close friend? If the person is your close friend, what is the effort that you do on your friends? Only buy gift during her birthday? Only spend time during her birthday?
Whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice, and sacrifice is the essence of love. Have you sacrifice anything for your friends just for their benefit?
Give without Loving is easy, Love without Giving is hard. Love is all about Giving UP your own time, energy, preference and etc..
"Whenever we have the opportunity, we should good to everyone"
"Use everyone you have for doing good"
"Whenever you possibly can, do good to those who need it"
"Never tell your neighbour to wait until tomorrow if you can help them now"
(quoted from Rick Warren)
Love is not PROCRASTINATION. Never miss a chance if you able to express your love. The intensity of feeling will be changed, so expression of LOVE should be NOW.
I LOVE YOU! *hug*
ReplyDeletebut not through words only ok~ i m sincere one. Hehe! ^^
i guess everyone has different interpretations of love. :) For me, my understanding of love is more or less the same as yours. It's not about word of mouth... it's for the sarcrifises you've made for the one you love. :)
Haha..Shanna dear..
ReplyDeleteI received your love
Thank you :D