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Am I supposed to conform?

Conform to the rules because you have no choice over it. You conform, because you believe in it. For example, bible, quran or Buddhist book. Religious people are practicing those rules and might apply it into real life situation.

What if you are conform to it due to the other restriction? Today I went to one of the universities in Malaysia. Majority of students are Islamic students. I am not allowed to enter due to my dress code. I wore decently, with a pant which length almost to the ankle. I had been rejected to enter the library because their rule is your dress code must be more than ankle.

I respect your dress code. But, It isn't a bit unreasonable to just stop me from entering. I did not know about the dress code before that. At least, give us a chance. We came from so far just want to get journals out from your library, why can't the person talked or told us nicely?

What is the purpose you divide the seat far away from male to female. People are not following. What if you are enforcing that you are an Islamic university, where I had seem people smoking in in the campus?

In the book it said "those things that harm you, you should be avoided". I have seen plenty of people with religion smoking, drinking, gambling, bribing and etc. You fill up the form and claim that you have religion, but you are doing those wrong thing..what is the use?

I respect it doesn't mean that I should follow it. Religion teaching is to tell, instead of bully. You are supposed to educate instead of force people to follow it bluntly. People want to practice or not, is the person choice. When the religion is blended with culture, politic or history - it changes..

The more you force, the worst the result is. After the 308 election, a lot of racial discrimination issue has been brought up. I am an social issue idioit, just started to read newspaper recently. It is really beneficial to occupy oneself the knowledge of social issue. I started to realize and know a lot of things happened here.

USM, more than 4000 students were rejected to be enrolled to the university with the reason of technical error. Top students in SPM unable to get JPA to further study oversea, even unable to enrol in pre-u study. Most of the people affected are chinese.

I am blessed that I got no much problem with those issue, but how about the rest who actually involving? If want to be fair, what is the line of it ?

I just feel that if you give more freedom, people might behave well. Those stereotying behavior mught be reduced..

Hui Ru

Comments

  1. Wah...i feel anger wo. haha.

    The UIA jst following their regulation. You are not the first person who encounter that. Haha. If you ask them, they sure give you the reason that if i let u in, next time other ppl will do the same and how am i supposed to do that?

    Sometimes, we need to be cruel to execute the laws and regulations...thats why many ppl dun like law :P hahaha.

    For the election and USM's joke, its simply an embrassment for malaysia. Look open abit. We cant do anything besides hoping malaysia to get better in future...as we will be the one responsible for it soon, so it should be good rite? lol

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  2. haha..Malaysia Boleh !!!

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