浪漫的定义。。在于你的需要，你的要求。。
华丽的盛宴，昂贵的礼物，公开式表白，特大的惊喜。。
简单的自备食物，朴实自制礼物，默默的付出，小小的惊喜。。等等。。
对我而言，浪漫就是。。
一个疼你的人。。为了你做了每一件的事。。
疼就是浪漫。。
不需要任何外在条件，只需要一颗心。。
心代表了真正的自己。Do it with all your heart..
想疼一个人，来自于你的心有没有那个人。。
再怎样昂贵的礼物，都比不上一颗疼你的心。。
物质上的满足，不代表你是浪漫的。。
谢谢疼我的人。。
Recently learnt about emotion triangle, it said human tends to suppress core emotion, and manifested as either a defense or inhibitory emotion. The emotion that we tends to inhibit are shame, guilt ... There are fear and inferiority that governs my heart - I have to learn to address and admit my feelings better, and make a decision to communicate or set a boundary. It is hard to actually do so, and I know after I have done it - I can sense my guilt and shame. It is like a vicious cycle. I have to make a promise to myself - be mindful, be steady and let my head clears. Don't react much...But at the same times I am glad that I did say something. I did express myself. I did feeling less intense. I treated it as a progress. Anyway I felt sorry of the people that I hurt - when I am still a human with sin...
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