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抉择

如果有一天,你必须做出抉择。。

二选一,

同等的重要,放弃哪一方都是有失有得,有优有缺。。

认知的错乱就产生了。。

抉择取决于思考。。。

思考的越多,也迷失方向。。

对与错只是一线之间。。

向左,向右。。

都为有遗失的美好。。

被迫,或压力下所需要的抉择。。

压力,让你的情绪起伏不定。。

情绪与认知的交接。。

4种可能产生的状况

好情绪+好认知·好情绪+坏认知·坏情绪+好认知·坏情绪+坏认知

+好,当然是好事。。

但如果,

你陷入了无法抉择,也并不想抉择的时候。。

你的思考将是凌乱的。。

你的情绪也是烦躁的。。

如果,你不懂得释放。。

你,总有一天。。

就很有可能倒了。。

Hui Ru

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