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24th July 2010, Graduated!

Sorry for delaying this post because of my laziness to choose and edit photos. This was a day that I wasn't feel excited about initially. But, miracle happened I started to feel nervous when the day was approaching.

I learnt make-up just for this day. But I failed to DIY, because I didn't trust my skills at all. Finally, I got my sister-in-law to help me, and I was pleased with this. I didn't have appetite before the ceremony, and surprisingly I felt super hungry after came down from stage. I think due to my concentration too much focused on getting scroll on stage.

I was grateful because my family members, everyone were there to give me full fledged support. They presented themselves elegantly, and gifted me a huge hugging bear, a bundle of roses with graduating bear, and also a bundle of pool's families.

It was the most important, when your families able to testify your convocation. A big thank you to them especially to my parents who provided me everything in any aspects.

On the other hand, friends played a great role in my life too. Looking at my psychology friends, everyone dressed up formally, put on gowns, wore mortal board, and lined up to go to hall and etc. All the process they were with me. Everyone were a smiling and charming angels.

I was grateful to know them. Especially those went through joy and sorrow, thick and thine, rain and shine with me. Thanks for their genuine heart towards me.


The convocation ended, my heart became low spirit. The shift of emotion was extreme, yet it was memorable for me.

Happy Graduation to all the graduands.

Browsing through friends' graduation photos, can feel it was really a big day for them :)


Hui Ru

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  1. happy graduation date wa....hahahaha...

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  2. me too. super hungry once i was off from the stage. hahahahahha! =D

    i am happy to know you too! though it came later during the studies period, but i am blessed to have you :) to play a big role in my life ^^

    jiayou, ru! :)

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