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Love is simple

Love, isn't it unconditional? It seemed nope. I confess, I expect love to be rewarding. I won't request for equality in love, because it is impossible to measure the weightage of love. It is important to be loved by someone you love, because you literally feel you are in top of the world.

Love is selfish. We don't like love to be shared. It is applied when you fall in love to someone. If the person treats you less importance than others, how does you feel? You feel suck, and unhappy. You wish you gain love from the person.

Love is comparison. We compare our level of importance one another. We always tease each other, in fact perhaps we are envy or jealous about each other. Sometimes, we might seem agreeable or show ignorance, those are the sign of comparison. Definitely, we want to be the most beloved one.

Above was just the examples of love behavior. Love is shared among family, friend, relative, strangers and others - literally human being. We tend to be possessive toward someone we are close to, yet for someone who we are not familiar with, we don't even bother about the love.

It is how a human treat love is. It is pathetic, generalized to most of the human beings, yet not all.

We know how to love because God first love us. A love given by God supposed to be purity, natural, unconditional and sacrifice. He is the model, but we don't model him. The reality stops us to be as pure as we were, because we don't want to be the outcast of the reality.

What is love?

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Hui Ru

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房间

锁在房间里,自己一个人的空间。。 享受着自己的气味。。 房间,是我逃避的避难所。。 小时候,我会在黑漆漆的房间哭泣。。 让眼泪自由的掉落, 不敢痛快地哭,因为会被骂。。 会把自己藏在被单里默默的哭泣 所以,只有我的床能够感觉到温温的湿度。。 也许,这是从小养成的习惯, 长大了,还是觉得房间是我的私人空间。。 因为,房间才能让我把情绪抒发。。 特别是负面的情绪。。 现在,有股冲动, 不想出门,只想待在房间里。。 就算发呆。。 我想,与世隔绝。。 只是与亲近的人联络。。 逃避自己。。 不想面对自己。。