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Love is simple

Love, isn't it unconditional? It seemed nope. I confess, I expect love to be rewarding. I won't request for equality in love, because it is impossible to measure the weightage of love. It is important to be loved by someone you love, because you literally feel you are in top of the world.

Love is selfish. We don't like love to be shared. It is applied when you fall in love to someone. If the person treats you less importance than others, how does you feel? You feel suck, and unhappy. You wish you gain love from the person.

Love is comparison. We compare our level of importance one another. We always tease each other, in fact perhaps we are envy or jealous about each other. Sometimes, we might seem agreeable or show ignorance, those are the sign of comparison. Definitely, we want to be the most beloved one.

Above was just the examples of love behavior. Love is shared among family, friend, relative, strangers and others - literally human being. We tend to be possessive toward someone we are close to, yet for someone who we are not familiar with, we don't even bother about the love.

It is how a human treat love is. It is pathetic, generalized to most of the human beings, yet not all.

We know how to love because God first love us. A love given by God supposed to be purity, natural, unconditional and sacrifice. He is the model, but we don't model him. The reality stops us to be as pure as we were, because we don't want to be the outcast of the reality.

What is love?

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Hui Ru

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