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Life is Fragile

Life is so much different for everyone. Some people are fortunate enough to have a good family, good friends, and good living. Some people are unlucky to have a broken family, bad companion, and unhealthy lifestyle...

Life is never balanced up. Life is unequal. Time goes by, life is still go on and never give us time to put a pause and rewind..

A person who experienced hardship in life..either positively look at the opportunities in the future or negatively complaining the life they have...

Recently...listened to my friend story about her life...i only can empathize her...she experienced so much in a young age...so long she still can hold on? a broken family, a bad health situation, financial difficulty and etc... and..she is no one can share problem with...

What is Life? i still remember a debate that happening in my class..If God really exist, why the life is so unfair and so much pain and hurt? A long debate carried on...But my answer is, we cant blame God for that..Here, is just a temporary home..God put us in great challenge and obstacles to make us grow up.."Never experience, never gain" ...

I m sorry to hear when there is someone passed away...i hardly can accept it if it happen to my dearest people one day...i know..it is just a cycle...i know that..they will be sent to heaven or hell when they are dead..but still...i dont like to take death as a topic to discuss with...

Life is indeed fragile..Face the life positively...enjoy the life...appreciate our life that given by God...appreciate everyone that around us..never let ourselves regret...

Pray that my dearest family, my dearest friends and their families, and all the people i know or dont know...

Everyone has a good health...Take care yourselves :D
Everyone lives in happiness :D
Everyone can face challenges and obstacles positively and bravely :D

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  1. such a great post of yours~ =D
    You know what, you're on the way to begin a counselor life. Haha! ^^

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  2. haha..thanks for the compliment..paiseh

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失眠

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