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You are not responsible for what people think about you. But you are responsible for what you give them to think about you. (Stanley Ferrard) People might think of you as a good person to be with. Thus, the person might try his ultimate effort to be close with you, and to know you more. It is how you give response to the person. You may be offered yourselves and being very helpful to the person, thus has created a good impression to that person. When the person is showing his interest, you might feel scared of it because this is not your intention to be. But, your words and actions already make the person misunderstood you. People might think of you as a bad person to be with. You might be behave very wierd and strange in front of the public. You are not revealing your true self, and people are not comfortable to open up to you too. In fact, you might be very kind hearted. But your attitude in front of others have given a mindset for people to look at you. I always wonder how people l

Friendship Restricted by age, authority, gender, race and so on Is friendship easily to be built up? But hard to maintain Having a Friend - is full of complexity and confusion It is a boundary whereas there is a conflict of interest You can't be as free as you want to Friendship with a gap It can't be extended into deeper emotion

One day, someone went to the shopping mall to buy fruit. Out of blue moon, she decided to buy durian because she never try it before. She brought back home, and planned to eat immediately. She had a hard time to open the durian, finally she found a solution. Which is... She put the durian inside the wok, and tried to cook it.. hahaha.. A story shared by my friend..Although it is a common sense to use knife to open the durian, thus there is a person who doesnt know about it..The moral of the story is to NEVER ASSUME EVERYTHING IS COMMON SENSE, because the thing that we might know, but there is someone who doesnt know about it.

A very touching song to share with my readers ~~ hahaha.. Yesterday was my first time to hear about this song. Immediately, I fell in love with it.. Lyric: Would You be There If I were blue, would you be there for me, And whisper in my ears that's ok. Would you stand by me, let me hold you tight, And say you love me one more time. If I feel good, would you slow dance with me, And touch my lips with tender loving care, Would you die for me, would you run with me, And never look back.. Would you be there to love, to be with me? Would you swear that your love is always true? Would you say that you'll always be the one, to take my breath away? Would you be there to love, to be with me? Would you swear that your love is always true? Would you say that you'll always be the one, to take my breath away? Would you be there.. If I am away, would you still think of me, And wished that you could hold me now. Would you die for me, would you run with me, All the way ... Would you be ther

I felt i m too straight forward, My opinion will be voiced out whenever i felt is right, Perhaps, i have hurt someone with my whole-hearted comment, I m apologize if i have offended anyone, But i never want to point you wrong, I just want to share my thought I dislike someone gives me blackmailing statement Even i have a heart to help, but i will choose not to Because it is not out of my willingness Everyone has their own preference and choice And the promises that you have given should be fulfilled Because, i stick to promise Objective when comes to professionalism Subjective when involving personal issues It seemed bad when we are too emotional attached Because we lost the sense of objectivity And everything is all about judgmental I m too passionate in the thing that i am committed, I want to improve and make it better, But, it creates pressure to others, Because perhaps i am demanding, I only can try my best to fulfill my role "Whatever you fear, will happen to you" - Jo

"Give thanks in any circumstances" Previously, my printer out of service. The alignment of printer has some problem, i had tried a lot of time to readjust by wasting the black ink, it still did not work. I have given up and planned to send for repair. The printer lifetime is only 1 year. Currently, My phone had showed its temper tantrum. It did not function in well-conditioned. When i pressed something, the screen turned into black. Even though i turned it off and on repeatedly, it did not helped. Even i upgraded the software, it still the same.. I was irritated at first because i did not able to reply sms or read sms properly. I sent for repair, but the boss said it cost RM170. So, i refused to do it. Phone has become part of my life because people used to contact me with phone. But now i can't put all my contact in the temporary phone that i m using, literally i lost the contact. Luckily, i was not angry. Sometimes, i hope that my life could be private I will be left al

It is such a long long journey to drive along the highway... Listening to radio...suddenly heard a song that my friend sang to me before.. Truly indulged..because it made me think of her..

Yesterday is a history Today is a realistic Tomorrow is a day of making Part of the poem made by a special child..We all were touched by him..But now, those phrase did applied to me.. I was pretty upset before..first of all, thanks to my friends who really worried about me..I was so blessed..I was unexpected by your actions..After reflecting, yes i am touched..and i know i shouldn't feel grief again.. It is a past, and what i can do is to move on..It is not for compensation, it is for future betterment..i will do better next time..I got the lesson and learnt from the lesson.. Giving comment, should be at the right time. It is better to give NOW when the memory is still fresh..instead of giving the comment after the thing has passed for long time...It is also better to give the comment at the right place. Sometimes, when we are not really clear about what is going on, it is better to talk to the person in private instead of public. It is a realistic i should accept. Because what has

I don't know how much tears that i shear, I don't know how much i can put myself in someone's shoe, But, i feel emotional, sad, and hurt for my buddy, "Special children need some encouragement, is not a matter of win or lose, they need to be recognize by their effort" This sentence seriously striked my heart, I m sorry.. I did not do it the best.. .

"The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves" We always believe that giving gifts to someone, celebrating birthday with someone, or having fun with someone and etc..It is all about LOVE... But, when we do that, do we give our focused attention on that person? Do you value that person by giving the person the most precious asset - TIME? We always claim or tell our friends "I love you", but do your friends really feel it? Or just say it because you THINK that he/she is your close friend? If the person is your close friend, what is the effort that you do on your friends? Only buy gift during her birthday? Only spend time during her birthday? Whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice, and sacrifice is the essence of love. Have you sacrifice anything for your friends just for their benefit? Give without Loving is easy, Love without Giving is hard. Love is all about Giving UP your own time, energy,

"What is your child's disability?" "What your child can't do?" "What is your child's limitation?" The dad spoke with us brokenheartedly..a child with disability...is it only can look at them as disabled person...a mum who had an autistic son, unable to accept the fact...she was negative..and always got irritated by her son's behavior..she only worried..what his son can't do... Luckily..the dad is quite positive...he looked at The ability of his son... They discovered that their son..has some quality too..he can play piano...although he can't read musical notes..but still he can play based on his memory...although he play quite fast for every single notes...but he can sit still and play the whole song.. He improved himself slowly... A positive family environment indeed make a difference to those special people... Yes..he is one of the participants for BB Got Talent.. Awaiting for his surprise !! Are you coming to support him?

Today we had a rehearsal for our upcoming event - BB Got Talent. A Talent Show for People with Intellectual Disabilities to perform on a stage. Today, few of them came for practice. I was shocked by their performance. I know that, performance by special people and normal people is non-comparable. Today, Leena asked me "What you will see when you look at them perform?" I answered: "As long as they could complete the performance, I already contented" Yes, the purpose of our event is to give them a chance to perform on the stage, no matter good or bad, their initiation to step on the stage already deserved a very big applause by us. When I looked at their practice, I m truly salute them. They are really TALENTED!! I could feel their emotion when they are doing something that they like. The PASSION toward their talent, I think we all should learn from them. We might think that the talent show is going to be bored, dull and uninteresting..but in my point of view..we shou

Our lovely Psychology Club (PC)'s committee We took this photo in Malawati Hill, Kuala Selangor. The first trip organized by PC club - a total of 40 people join us with this 1 day adventure. It was a extraordinary surprise for us, because we never expect that we managed to get enough people to join our trip, in additional we have to reject some application because we already had enough participants. Thank you for everyone who support our event. First of all, I am thankful to PC committee. Without their great help in managing and coordinating the whole event, i believe that this trip wouldn't be in smooth. Aple - our "hot-blooded" president always encourage us to MOVE MOVE for all the idea that we have. Hardly could see her rejects our opinion, and she LET you go to TRY. Because of her green light, we able to get the thing done. When you know her more, you will have great FUN with her. Nitia - our "talkative" vice president. He is the one-and-only indian comm

BB Got Talent is COMING SOON !!! BB - Best Buddies is our club name. Best Buddies could be refer to friends. This is what Best Buddies is all about. However, we develop our friendship with people with INTELLECTUAL DISABIBITIES. Those people we called them buddies. This time, Best Buddies organized an event for BUDDIES to showcast their talent on the stage. What talent they have? It might be a question posted by us. Yes, they are not useless. They are very TALENTED. They could dance, sing, yoga and etc.. Believe it or not, come and attend this BB Got Talent. You wouldn't be disappointed by their performance. On top of that, Buddies need your support and applause. If they get recognition from the public, their self esteem and confidence will be boosted. Why not we all providing them a chance to SHINE on the stage?? This event - is all for charity . All the tickets money that we obtained, we will be channel it out to NASAM (National Autism Society of Malaysia). So, by joining this sho

Decription about me - you have to use an item to describe me, it is what Best Buddies members' wishes for my birthday. It is precious, because i got a chance to know how they look at me, and how they percieve me. Someone said that I m mysterious, hard to understand, and fear to talk to me. My look seems serious most of the time, and it scared people off. In fact, my physical look does not describe who am I. I like the decription that Best Buddies did for me. It is not only a way to let me realise myself, in fact it is an encouragement and compliment for me to carry on the mission of Best Buddies together with this cool team. I did not want to disclose what they mentioned here, but those message serves as a reminder for myself to do my own self reflection. It is not important to understand someone fully, because the person herself can't even understand herself fully. The person might change her way of talking, her adaptive behavior or her emotion toward things or people due to d