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Yesterday is a history
Today is a realistic
Tomorrow is a day of making

Part of the poem made by a special child..We all were touched by him..But now, those phrase did applied to me..

I was pretty upset before..first of all, thanks to my friends who really worried about me..I was so blessed..I was unexpected by your actions..After reflecting, yes i am touched..and i know i shouldn't feel grief again..

It is a past, and what i can do is to move on..It is not for compensation, it is for future betterment..i will do better next time..I got the lesson and learnt from the lesson..

Giving comment, should be at the right time. It is better to give NOW when the memory is still fresh..instead of giving the comment after the thing has passed for long time...It is also better to give the comment at the right place. Sometimes, when we are not really clear about what is going on, it is better to talk to the person in private instead of public.

It is a realistic i should accept. Because what has been done is already done. For future, i will make it work better.

Not to forget to mention, the poem ended with

"I m the perfect child of my parents"



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  1. sHanNaMarch 24, 2009 at 1:39 AM

    yeap.
    You're a blessed friend for everyone around. =) What you can do is to move on, and i guess you'll have many many blessings along the way. At least, i will gv u support by all means. Shoot! :) Hehe!

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