当你爱的人伤害自己
心痛的是爱你的那个人
就好像眼睁睁的看着爱的人走向火堆
再怎样的担忧爱的人还是继续走向
爱的人和爱你的人都各自有主见
但那个方式才是对才是错
跟着爱的人的方式
明明就觉得危险但还需要装作不危险
还是要告诉爱的人危险但爱的人不想知道危险
这就是困难之处
难道真的不做任何努力挽救？
就这样默默让爱的人要怎样就怎样？
理不清对错 爱中不讲理
爱只所以强大是因为真的很难
Recently learnt about emotion triangle, it said human tends to suppress core emotion, and manifested as either a defense or inhibitory emotion. The emotion that we tends to inhibit are shame, guilt ... There are fear and inferiority that governs my heart - I have to learn to address and admit my feelings better, and make a decision to communicate or set a boundary. It is hard to actually do so, and I know after I have done it - I can sense my guilt and shame. It is like a vicious cycle. I have to make a promise to myself - be mindful, be steady and let my head clears. Don't react much...But at the same times I am glad that I did say something. I did express myself. I did feeling less intense. I treated it as a progress. Anyway I felt sorry of the people that I hurt - when I am still a human with sin...
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