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I don't know how much tears that i shear,
I don't know how much i can put myself in someone's shoe,
But, i feel emotional, sad, and hurt for my buddy,
"Special children need some encouragement, is not a matter of win or lose, they need to be recognize by their effort"
This sentence seriously striked my heart,
I m sorry..
I did not do it the best...

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  1. 娜March 22, 2009 at 2:52 PM

    *hugs*
    jiayou.
    your buddy will feel your recognitionn someday, somewhere...

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  2. AnonymousMarch 22, 2009 at 7:57 PM

    I understand how you feel, and i understand how you would not take what all your friends encouragement and consolation seriously as you will always take you emotions and your buddy's feelings as the ultimate priority.

    As a friend (if you do think of me as one). Your effort, and love and willingness to make this work indicates your passion in giving these individuals the recognition they deserve.

    It was a competition and the buddies were competing against one another. The parents were aware of that. It was their platform to compete among each other and to exhibit their talents and capabilities to the public.

    You went through a lot for this event, you and your team, sleepless night, calling parents making them come for the rehearsal, adjusting to their whims and fancy and driving around getting things in order. For what purpose was it if it was not for your buddy and all the others who participated?

    You need to understand, that you may not be able to please everyone and you will never be able to satisfy their every inch and desire. All you can do is work on improving yourself and your work by gaining feedback's and constructive criticism and make it work better.
    But do not ever believe that you did not do you best because my dear dear friend you did your best of the BEST!

    You and your team opened up an avenue for people to realize that these individuals can perform. Perhaps in the future we could improve the show, but do not blame yourself and do not for once believe that you failed.

    And if it helps you in anyway, the response from the audiences who came indicated that they enjoyed each of the performers, the claps that each of them received, as well as the yells of encouragements as well as the cheers is also a recognition in itself for all the buddies as well as your buddy.

    Recognition has plenty of definition to each and every individual, including your buddy. But in that pool of definitions - recognition is definitely not only merely a certificate,nor an award nor a need to come up on stage to receive something.

    Recognition can also mean that people believe in them.

    And with that i wish you my best.

    My apologies for this long comment, I hope you were not offended. All the best for you and your buddy

    Yours sincerely

    You know who I Am.

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