Reality and Hypocrisy

Reality? Is reality cruel? Is it the only way to survive in real world, we have to pretend who we are?

When you are studying,
You might secretly check your friends' marks, and always take them as your threat.
You might copy and paste your friends assignment, in order to get good marks.
You might take your friends for granted to check your assignment.
You might backstabbing your friends, in order to get the trust from the lecturers.

When you are at work,
You might gossiping about your colleagues, and take them as a joke.
You might carefully observing your colleagues' actions, and make a complaint to the boss.
You might laugh at your colleagues work, and show off.

Is it all because of reality? If you didn't do so, you might not able to get promoted or get noticed..It is sad..I have been told a lot of times..

"Don't be innocent and naive, you treat people good, people might stab you"

Yes. I have experienced it once. It is painful but is very precious for me. I learnt a lot from the people who do badly to me.

And, what i have learnt also...

Hypocrisy - is what i hatred the most.

Who are you to judge other people? Don't try to critic others if you also do what other people did?

Watch with what we said, our words might hurt others, and also make our own personal image low..

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