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Attaining the result

The desire accomplished is sweet to the soul

I had been struggling for almost 1 week, is just for the preparation of my final project viva. The feeling of not clear about my topic, and the difficulty of getting my journal articles made me like a loser. I was tensed and worried. Until the last 3 days, i finally got some. I was extremely excited, because my effort and time in doing it were not wasted.

Procrastination is always not the best way to accomplish the task. If you do it earlier, at least you able to identify the problem earlier, and you have more time to solve the problem. If you work hard for it, you will get something productive in return. Always prepare, is always the best safeguard.

Although the process of doing it, is painful and stressful. I had the feeling of giving up. I felt super tense and stress. I felt like vomiting. At last, I still hold on to it, because I can't afford to not complete my assigned task.

After presenting my paper, I know that I had done my best. I know there is still a room of improvement, but the moment of I had accomplished my task, is a sense of relieved. I achieved a feeling of satisfaction, because I know what am I doing. Although it is not the best, however It is important to recognize our own effort.

To my dear friend, try to bear with the painful process. It is because The desire accomplished is sweet to the soul


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