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Isolation

Exclusion from people, is pitiful. It feels like a heavy hand slaps on your face, yet you can't make any noise from it. Is it because you are the only one being excluded? You are being excluded, what is the reason? If you are not guilty, why you did not defense yourself? If you are good, why you will be excluded?

Then why people want to eliminate another person from a group? You won't feel bad when you did that to someone you know? What is the reason that you excluded the person? Your reason could be justified, but do everyone reserve 2nd chance? Forgiveness is a virtue.

To be in a group, we can't always go with our preference. In a group, there is always social loafing involved. How you deal with a group is a crucial stage to reduce social loafing. The person could do well in A group, why can't perform well in B group? If you already identify that the person doesnt produce a good work, why can't you rectify the problem before everything is done?

It is always hard to deal with people who don't do work. Treat it as a process of maturity. Learning through difficulties, is a form of growth.

It is really sad to see people being excluded by other people. Even though there is a valid reason why they do so, is still feel sad to see it. Who wants to be isolated?

Hui Ru

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