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友之语

一个你能依靠的朋友,突然离你而去..
中止所有联络的方式..
不想再管你了..
那颗心..应该碎了..
心如刀割..
你给他的希望,去了那里?
你,之前是如此的关心他...
就一句话"我受过了"
你..放弃了他..
你的努力..想要帮助他的那颗心...
就这样一瞬间的消失..
听的旁人,觉得遗憾..
感受的人..应该低落吧...
人..真的可以说放就放?
也许,爱情上的放手,可以潇洒..
不过,友情上的放手,可以这样的洒脱吗?
爱情,你有给机会吗?
友情,你有原谅他吗?
你跟他亲密,是为了什么?
事情是可以谈的..
给对方机会去改,不要用别人帮你交待...
自己的事,自己拿主意..
让别人左右,对你,对他都不公平..
你..还是我认识的人吗?

Hui Ru

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