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小故事分享：成为一个自己愉快，也能够给别人愉快的人 ^.^

一位十六歲的少年去拜訪一位年長的智者。4 J Z+ w J: J' N0 _

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" O1 J/ z& o3 b: K" U2 }muartalks.com智者笑著望著他說：「孩子，在你這個年齡有這樣的願望，已經是很難得了。很多比你年長很多的人，從他們問的問題本身就可以看出，不管給他們多少解釋，都不可能讓他們明白真正重要的道理，就只好讓他們那樣好了。」# \* T+ U( r4 Y( U B7 \# Z

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智者接著說：「我送給你四句話。」MUARTALKS 麻坡论坛5 e( M- q' E4 z& B( \+ l

) X- U( {- } j1 L第一句話是：「把自己當成別人。」你能說說這句話的含義嗎？
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智者微微點頭，接著說，第二句話：「把別人當成自己。」
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少年沈思一會兒，說：「這樣就可以真正同情別人的不幸，理解別人的需求，並且在別人需要的時候，給予恰當的幫助？」
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智者兩眼發光，繼續說道：「第三句話：把別人當成別人。」
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少年說：「這句話的意思是不是說，要充分地尊重每個人的獨立性，在任何情形下，都不可侵犯他人的核心領地？」
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智者哈哈大笑：「很好，很好。孺子可教也！」
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第四句話是：「把自己當成自己，這句話理解起來太難了，留著你以後慢慢品味吧。」1 P& ~% n# w* a/ i
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少年說：「這句話的含義，我是一時體會不出。但這四句話之間就有許多自相矛盾之處，我用什麼才能把它們統一起來呢？」麻坡,麻坡美食,麻坡论坛,麻坡旅游,时尚中文论坛社区,柔佛论坛,东甲论坛,昔加末论坛,新山论坛,插件6 X" L7 M2 Q6 b7 {4 q% {
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智者說：「很簡單，用一生的時間和經歷。」muartalks.com; w$ o) \3 h+ M7 B( ^ d

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不要認為，自己什麼都可以做的到，就好像你伸手，卻抓不住整個天空，從我們站的地方來看，雨是隨機地下；如果我們站在別的地方，也許就能看出其中的規則。


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