执子之手,与子偕老

今天，一通的电话，只听到爸爸一直的感叹，他收到了恶讯。。不知情的我，不闻不问，也没有多大的反应，心想晚间时才询问爸爸到底发生什么的事。。

婆婆，最爱我载她去找她的姐妹，也就是我的老姨。路途上，我用这我有限的福建方言与她沟通。有说有笑却不知觉的到达目的地。

拿着拐杖的婆婆，缓缓地下车。突然间，老姨家的邻居爆出一句话“小妹妹，你知不知道那个老人死了”，我不懂装懂，随便的回答，就跟着婆婆进入老姨家。

安顿好了，便自行的坐下。老姨行动不方便，已无法自己走动。婆婆便与老姨以潮州话畅谈起来。没别的用意，婆婆来的目的是想要安抚老姨。

看着老姨，眼眶红红的。。我开始感受到了心里有一丝的悸动。我不禁的感叹。他们谈着老姨丈的后事，老姨丈如何过生。。等等。。

老姨突然悲从中来，我好想哭的感觉。。

为什么？

白发人送黑发人，是难以接受的。。不过，白发人送白发人又何等的感受呢？

今天，我见识到了。。原来，与子偕老，在一对老夫老妻的身上是至上的。老姨回忆着他，叙述着他对她的爱护与关怀，让我鼻子顿时酸酸的。老姨不禁哭了2次，婆婆也只能告诉她“他能够安详的去世，很好命了”强忍的泪水，对她来讲是很困难的。

"家里少了一个人，很孤单” 这是她对她的老公的宣言。哎，感叹人生就是苦短。生老病死，是必经之路。不过，自己的至亲突然的离开，就像在心脏开了一个口。尤其是，平时老伴的踪影已无处可寻，只有回忆中的背影，隐隐约约的烙在心里。

老姨丈的离开，看到了老姨真挚的爱。原来，爱就是这样的简单。爱就是对方的陪伴。

老姨丈，虽然我对你没有很大的印象。不过，我深信你的80多年的生涯，应该是多姿多彩的，安息吧；而老姨，你要好好的活下去。。

Hui Ru

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