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我要变下去 - 语言

电视上正播映着"我要唱下去",本小姐就来个“我要变下去”。这个主题是自我鼓励的推动力。实习的第二个礼拜,我的自信心有点受创了。星星之火,并不是什么的大事。当时的我有点不好受,因为我隐藏的弱点被发现了。


弱点就是优点?我的弱点就是我有把哭的声音。哭声,大家应该都听过。我的哭声,并不是宏亮,却是低沉的。我的声音,让人觉得没精神。那么,我的弱点,是优点吗?


“在辅导的领域里,当别人打电话来时,以你的声音可能会让别人觉得更低落” - 这一句话,有点刺耳,不过,我很感恩她的提醒。


我要训练自己,让我的语言能力变好。


这是我的目标,加油!


第一计划“我要变下去” - 语言妥善的掌控


“人生路很漫长,只要[变],就能[通]”


Hui Ru

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  1. 加油!!!!!
    每天跟我讲话!=D
    我们一起进步!:)

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