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每逢星期二,博爱辅导中心都会有晨祷。晨祷包括了读经,启示与代祷。进行的形式-自由。这个星期的晨祷,我很喜欢。第一,我们可以动手做。第二,领悟带了的启示。

她问:“为什么耶稣要隐藏自己?” 雪梅回答:“休息是为了走更长远的路,以一个风云人物的身份,隐藏自己,给自己一些的私人空间,不只可以充电,也重新的找到自己的目标”

人,需要拥有私人空间。当我的私人时间被侵犯时,很明显的。。我的心情低落,我也有可能暂时消失。隐藏并不代表逃避。隐藏只是让自己暂时性的与世隔绝。世间上,人就已经足够让我们烦恼。不同的性格,可以产生意见不和,彼此之间的不谅解,也有可能充满了嫉妒,愤怒,伤心等等。除了人,事情的复杂,忙碌的生活,一知半解的困惑。。足以构成一个人无法控制自己的局面。

一个辅导员分享了“不说话,其实也是隐藏”。一个人滔滔不绝的说话,只是表面有层次显现他很健谈,一点也没问题,不需要接受任何的治疗或辅导。如何让一个人把心里无法表达,无法说出来,那才是最珍贵的。因为,他说的是他隐藏很久的话,这才是需要受治疗的根源。

是的,一个人老是说我不懂得去表达。这只不过是一种地隐藏。也许不是刻意的,不过潜意识不由自主地去做。为什么呢?是不是心底总是害怕被判断?还是严重的创伤让自己无法面对?

每一个,都有一幅的面具。面对着大众,我们可能就把《自己》藏起来,说话都需要特别的小心,深怕自己说错话。当面对自己时,我们都较容易释放自己的情绪,不怕别人怎样的去想。

隐藏,就让我想到海边。海风是如此的有能量,可以吹走我的烦恼。只要闭上眼睛,就能让自己的心情平静。让自己思考“我要的是什么”。了解自己,肯定自己,才能展现自己独当的魅力。

别人的话语,可以让自己觉得自己失败。自己的自尊心受创。重点是,别人的话语,是不是也应该懂得分轻重?什么该听,什么是对?别人比较了解你,还是你自己了解自己呢?你自己,有先去了解自己吗?当然,这不代表你能够顽固的认为自己是最好的。每个人,都有自己的弱点,当然也有优点。优点是我们的魅力,弱点是让我们有进步的空间。

世上,只有神是完美的。人类在这个复杂的世界里,都会犯罪,这让人类的弱点都显现出来了。简单,其实并不简单。大自然,本来是最原始,最不受到污染的。大自然本来可以象征着简单。人,会选择回到大自然,是想要让自己充电,让自己身心减轻压力。这种大自然的享受,我们还能够享受多久呢?

当你迷失了,是不是应该隐藏呢?

Hui Ru

Comments

  1. Jesus Christ hide himself because his time has not arrived yet

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  2. 看了你的blog,我很想隐藏自己。。。有何建议吗?那里可以忘记自己,隐藏自己,不让任何人找到我!

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  3. 其实,每个的角落都可以隐藏。试想想,那么你觉得可以放纵自己,哪儿可以自然的舒放自己呢?我是觉得,隐藏只是暂时性,是让你自己找回自己呀。。如果你想要避开周围人群,那可能你可以去旅行。。只是小小的建议。。希望能够帮助到你。。

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