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Life Principle 18-24

YOU CAN REACH THE TOP by Zig Ziglar

18. I've got to say "no" to the good so I can say "yes" to the best

- 8 crucial areas of life: happiness, health, peace, prosperity, security, friendships, family and hope


19. We deplete nature's resources by using them up. We deplete man's natural resources by failing to use them

- Don't say impossible to imagination and creativity


20. It seems universally true that people who have direction in their lives go farther and faster and get more done in all areas of their lives

- Non-purposive life, is just empty


21. When you break goals into increments and start controlling your time, things begin to happen

- discipline toward what we want to achieve


22. By the mile it's a trial, but by the inch it's a cinch

- don't belittle small effort, it will accumulate days by days


23. Some people find fault like there was a reward for it

- Appreciate the strength that a person possesses


24. You get better results if you have high expectations. This is true in science, math, reading, football, or band - Charles Adair

- Treat everyone like they are top-drawer with respect and courtesy in order they could meet your expectation

Hui Ru

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