家后, is a hokkien term means wife. It usually used by old folks. Traditionally, a girl who married to a guy, she ought to be a good wife, good mother, and a good daughter-in-law. You cannot say no, and be 100% faithful toward the husband and 100% hardworking toward the family.
Their marriage can last from years to years, and they are lovely couples for decade. 50 years, 60 years, 70 years or till the last breath, they bond together, and their heart cross for each other.
My grandma always takes care of my grandpa. She is always be with him. My grandpa will be worried when my grandma is sick. Outwardly, they seemed not loving each other. But, they have experienced thick and thin and joy and sorrow together. It showed their commitment in love.
Listening to 家后, my grandparents came across my mind. They went through so much of hardship which we can't even imagine and able to bear with it.
The faith to be together, and they hold on to it.
Treasure them, appreciate them, and love them.
our grandparent relationship should be the learning example for everyone of us
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