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Driving Attitude

A person's driving attitude, perhaps can reflect a person's personality. Once I remembered my friend conducted a research on Big Five Personality in relation to a person's driving attitude. Personally, I think it will be positively correlated between personality and attitude in driving.

I realized my temper hiked up to the maximum whenever encountered drivers who drive recklessly. I hatred to read headlines "death in accident" in newspapers, nevertheless someone I know. My heart will become overloaded. Accident sometimes can't avoided, but it also can be avoided. When the accident can be avoided, why want to let it happen?

Traffic light is no longer function as proposed. Yellow light, drivers speed up. Red light, drivers pass by still. Heavy loaded vehicles should be in third lane, could see them speeding, overtaking, and also in second and first lane.

I disliked drivers who don't consider the safety of others, keeping the distance with the car in front as minimum as possible, or shooting the spot light, or horning non-stop. I disappointed with drivers who are less tolerance, they think that let people overtaking them is a shame for them.

How you drive, is going to show what is your personality.

Anyway, I should train my temper, in order to keep myself healthy for not getting high blood pressure.

Drive safely at road, for the benefit of self and others.

Hui Ru

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