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当你的眼泪忍不住要流出来的时候,睁大眼睛,千万别眨眼,你会看到世界由清晰到模糊的全过程,而心却在眼泪滴下的那一刻变得清澈明晰!

A very meaningful sentences that i saw in a forum. The translation of English will be When your tear is about to shear, open ur eyes bigger, don't blink your eyes, and you will see the process of world is changing from clear to blur view, and the heart is becoming calmer after the tear has shear...



Crying - is definitely a way for me to express my emotion when i felt down or sad or angry..For me, is hard to express my negative emotion in word, when i started it, i will cry and cry..and burst into a lot of tears..then i will sleep with tears... The next day, my eyes are swollen..but i felt better...

Crying has its effect that could help me to release my emotion..in the state of crying, it might be hard for me to accept what had happened, i might questioning a lot of unpleasant thought in my mind..i might put a blame on myself or others over the problem that had occurred...

Whenever my eyes full of tears, i dont feel like wipe it...i will allow my tears to flow freely on my face... i am very easily cried...i like to cry...

Cry doesn't mean that you are weak, cry is only a form of expression. We all are learning from the tears that we shear...

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  1. i jz told my cousin bro about this issue last night. My grandpa passed away two days ago and i've been crying for 3 days. T_T

    So, yea...
    crying is a good way to release all your feeling. =)

    Have a great holiday. ^^
    Miss u! :)

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