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7 H

Today read a blog, it mentioned about 7 H. I found it very meaningful..so..

hehe..

1. HEAD - A person who is balance in studies or career.

If we always freak out due to our studies or career, we are lived in stress. Our brain is overload, and our mind is not functioning properly. Give a break for ourselves sometimes. Protect our head, is the way for us to be mature, and be more rational, and be more critical thinking.

2. Heart - A person who is ready to love.

Love yourself, before you love other. Love yourself doesnt mean that you don't give any love to anyone. Be more open hearted, don't be so calculative when come to giving love.

3. Hands - A person who is ready to serve.

If you have the ability, why not fully utilize it? If you know the theory, why can't you use it practically? Serve other with your ultimate effort, it might be a tough job. Your effort will be appreciated one day. You do it, people can see it.

4. Humour - A person who is accept humour (gives and receives).

Humour could be sarcastic too. Try not to be put it into heart too much, just leave it if you can't accept it. Share your laughter with others is the way to enhance relationship. Not to be stingy, because you might as well lose the fun of interaction.

5. Humility - A person who is humble to himself and others.

Humble is a way to learn. Be humble and open to all the critism and comment, then only you can learn. Ask more questions if you dont understand, if you understand please share your opinion. Improve yourself, and also improve others.

6. Health - A person who is in good health records.

Health is wealth. Healthy body always bring you more benefit such as more energetic, happier, steadier and etc. We can't do things well whenever we are weak. So be sure we are healthy.

7. Hospitality - A person who is welcoming to all.

Welcome all could be subjected to people or things. We accept who other is, look at people' strength instead of weaknesses. Things could be criticism or challenges. Be brave to welcome all the difficulties, and we will grow.

Read these in newspaper

我们可以用放大镜显微镜看人。往往我们会用放大镜看人的缺点,用显微镜看人的优点。

Last H that I gonna share is

Hui Ru, boleh. Hahahaha..Just for fun =D

Hui Ru

Comments

  1. what a nice 7H! =)
    i will link this post of yours to mine. Soon. Hahahahaha! =)

    but will ask my friend to forgo the last H.
    Hahahahahahahahahah! =)
    *kidding*

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