不顾一切的为爱牺牲，付出或豁出去
我举手赞成，我佩服，我仰慕
不过，你的爱
无法顾虑到其他人的感受例如家人
还觉得一切的所作所为是理所当然的
别人都在冒冷汗的时候，他却不是世俗的眼光
高调的你浓我浓
还自恃高，不怕五雷轰顶
根本不管别人的好意，或相劝
爱的轰轰烈烈时，一切都是盲目的
当你夹在朋友与家人之间
应该是祝福？反对？劝告？无视？
当你有话说，却只好吞入肚里时
何等的难？
为家人，感到伤心，为难
为朋友，感到失望，担心
这真的是真确的去爱吗？
对不起，我无法苟同
Recently learnt about emotion triangle, it said human tends to suppress core emotion, and manifested as either a defense or inhibitory emotion. The emotion that we tends to inhibit are shame, guilt ... There are fear and inferiority that governs my heart - I have to learn to address and admit my feelings better, and make a decision to communicate or set a boundary. It is hard to actually do so, and I know after I have done it - I can sense my guilt and shame. It is like a vicious cycle. I have to make a promise to myself - be mindful, be steady and let my head clears. Don't react much...But at the same times I am glad that I did say something. I did express myself. I did feeling less intense. I treated it as a progress. Anyway I felt sorry of the people that I hurt - when I am still a human with sin...
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