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圣经中所谓的爱

爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈，爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂，不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理，凡是包容，凡是相信，凡是盼望，凡是忍耐

刚刚陷入爱河的情侣，都可以深深感受到爱的美好。荷尔蒙的作祟，让彼此都只看到彼此的美，彼此的优点。就好像喝醉酒一样，陶醉在这个酒的美梦中。当身边的人批判他/她的伴侣缺点，他/她绝对会反驳，或从此不再向你提起他/她的恋爱史。这一切是多么的完美，情浓浓，爱深深...

两个人在一起久了，也自然越了解彼此。与热恋相比，这个恋情已经转化成稳定期。当一切都定下来了，人就会往现实着想。其实彼此相爱是不变的事实，不过不像热恋一样的疯狂。彼此会更加对柴米油盐酱醋茶而操心。担心对方的健康，担心对方的安全，担心对方的睡眠。爱充满了温情，有家人的感觉。

感情久了，彼此开始对热恋恋恋不忘。开始质疑“为什么不如从前了？”，就算回温，你也只觉得不再像以前一样。人的讨价还价，爱比较的性格慢慢地充满了思绪。一大堆的为什么，都被摊在台面。很多经典的语录，你都会听到。比如，为何你不再像一样那样爱我？为什么你都不懂我？

这个阶段最难熬，也最艰辛。大不了一拍两散，真的那么容易吗？除非，你眼前已经找到更好的，或许你真的太灰心了，也许另一半太绝情了。散场，应该就是彼此看见彼此最污秽的时刻。以前的美好，都变成雨后的泥巴。

圣经总是为人预备你将要面对的困境。这个时候，圣经中所谓的爱，彼此都应该好好的去省思。其实爱并不简单，圣经完美诠释了爱。以上的所有条件，可能我们都是不及格的。爱需要学习，你自己定义的爱，并不代表你的另一半也如此定义。那，你是否考虑依照神设定的爱去实践呢？

也许，顿时你会懂得爱了。。


Hui Ru

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