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如果你是温和型的人..

自从无意发现台湾节目“非关命运”,我对九型人格也略知一二。我,是温和型,九型人格里的第9型。温和型的人是好好先生或好好小姐的代表,很怕争执,最爱和平。其实,也代表了他/她懒惰去改变现状,觉得一切以方便,和谐就好。

可见的,自我催眠能力好强。遇到不开心的事,就告诉自己明天会更好,就告诉自己怎样去改变自己 - 以他人为中心。也许尝试去改变对方,如果没有任何效果,就是改变自己比较好.

事实是由我们自己创造的

他/她在团体中,基本上是受大家喜爱的.他/她一般都很随和,友善.他/她也爱帮助别人.不过,他/她往往被伤害了,周边的人都不会发现.因为他/她有苦自己吞.他/她不好意思去麻烦别人,也害怕别人因为他/她而耽误了自己的事.

这么内向的人,情绪要如何抒发呢?我呢,就是不停地听歌,思绪放空,眼泪不断地流,一个人默默地被储存很久的情绪伤害.

一个人在雨中,就算哭泣也没有人会察觉

有时候,我很讨厌自己的性格,有时候又很喜欢自己的性格.我很挣扎.我很爱付出,但很怕自己被伤害.我很爱为别人改变,但我很怕不受肯定.我很爱分享,但又怕别人没兴趣.很多的矛盾...

你能够勇敢赤裸裸地把自己的爱献上吗?

温和型,我还是接受你吧。。以别人为中心,好过是个自私的人。。

因为SIN的中间是I,罪都源自去自我...比如,自大,自傲,自私,自卑,都已自己为中心。这一切都不好...

p/s: 有时候,情绪对写作有很大的帮助。

Hui Ru

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