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最近有了一个领悟

人与人,以身俱来就是会互相伤害
只有做到宽容和不把焦点放在人上,
伤害才会减低

有人,特别是亲人或好友
要求你做的,不一定是你做得到或想做的
你的接受,他人是欣慰的
你的拒绝,却很可能带来伤害

你想尽办法去解释
他人接受了,你就释怀了
他人拒绝了,你就情绪波动了

别人也有他的想法
他也想尽办法去说服解释
接受了,他必定欢喜
拒绝了 ,他可能还是不了解

当然,前提是你在乎别人多过于在乎自己
别人也在乎你多过于在乎自己

这就是人无止境的要求自己
也要求别人

不过,到最后
最好的不是等别人改变迎合我
而是我改变不去在意,学会宽容

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