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蔡康永和理科太太的访谈
说到他总是被要求写快乐
但其实最该追求的是平静
快乐是一时也是最容易得到
但平静需要更多的努力获得
遇到瓶颈遇到挫折遇到困难
一定不快乐但如果会平静
却比较容易度过比较不会大反差
还有一个是冷漠与热情当中做一个选择
我会选冷漠 因为太热情我会怕我会闪
冷漠不代表没感情 我觉得只是比较会分析
冷漠不是没情感 只不过看了很多很多了
冷漠可以防止自己情绪化
热情不能维持24小时，但冷漠可以
所以冷漠比较贴切人
最近的状态 就这样

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