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今天读到一个文章Hui Ru
很有意思
什么是背叛?
背叛 betrayal 
be 是彻底的
trayal 是交付
当你彻底的交付 (信任)那个人的时候,才会因为对方的一句话还是一个动作而受伤
回顾自己的感情,背叛发生很多
可以是在感情的认知的差异而无意的背叛。没有好好的沟通彼此感情中的期待值,就很容易无法fulfill彼此的需要而受伤
也有可能是逃避依恋 缺乏安全感 而形成了背叛
想想背叛太容易发生 因为背叛很主观
可以是小事就被定义成背叛
也可以是大事却觉得无所谓
有了认知 下次应该会更好

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