一句的“可以帮我一件事吗？”
从要求者的口中，很容易因为他只认为是举手之劳，简单没什么问题的
被要求者，个人就比较的随便，可以的话就尽量的帮到底。。
一而再在而三的，重复的听到同一句话。。
开始不胜其烦。。。
这个叫得寸进尺，还是渐渐的有利用对方的成分？
帮助一个人，不是胡乱或盲目的去帮
要看对方需不需要，或对与错
例如：你借钱给一个挥霍的人，或借钱给一个三餐不温饱的人。。
哪一个应该帮呢？
助人为快乐之本，从小就被灌输的道德观念
长大了，就懂得转变。。
需要保护，也需要付出。。
If you said it is a waste to watch animation or cartoon in cinema, I will reject your idea. Firstly, most of the animation strongly project good moral ethics or values for the reference of audiences especially children. During the childhood, children ought to differentiate the right and the wrong distinctively, neither grey area nor in between. Value always serves as a guideline for us to oblige, not a compulsory because decision is still lied in the hand of human. This movie secretly intruded my deepen heart. It talked about relationship, a bond between dragon and human. The main character, Hiccup chose to save the night fury (dragon) because he saw the fear from its eye. Even a human, we got attracted or closer with people who are similar to us because we feel we able to understand each other better compared to differences. The flow of movie discussed the process of rejection, acceptance, understand and devotion in a relationship. When we are just a stranger for each other, we are re
助人为快乐之本。。。。
ReplyDelete就好像，救人一命胜造七级浮屠。。。
不是不帮，只是超出限度了！
长大了，人就学会变通了。。
如何得到平衡点。。。只有自己知!
每个人是不一样的.
也许，已经超出我的限度了
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