一句的“可以帮我一件事吗？”
从要求者的口中，很容易因为他只认为是举手之劳，简单没什么问题的
被要求者，个人就比较的随便，可以的话就尽量的帮到底。。
一而再在而三的，重复的听到同一句话。。
开始不胜其烦。。。
这个叫得寸进尺，还是渐渐的有利用对方的成分？
帮助一个人，不是胡乱或盲目的去帮
要看对方需不需要，或对与错
例如：你借钱给一个挥霍的人，或借钱给一个三餐不温饱的人。。
哪一个应该帮呢？
助人为快乐之本，从小就被灌输的道德观念
长大了，就懂得转变。。
需要保护，也需要付出。。
If you know a person, She claimed that "the maid put the spell on my family, at night a small boy will bite my foot, when I kick him away and I heard the sound of crying. Apart from that, she is mumbling at night. My daughter started to speak rudely to me, and did not call me as mother anymore. She moved back to her own house. My husband, he started to scold me in Malay, and also instructed the maid to beat grandsons. Everyone is sided the maid" No one is believing what she said. Her children claimed that she is just hallucination. She is just thinking too much because of her experience in stroke. After she got a stroke, things started to change. Her family did not treat her well. What is your advice? Is the maid put the spell on her family? Is she just thinking too much?
助人为快乐之本。。。。
ReplyDelete就好像，救人一命胜造七级浮屠。。。
不是不帮，只是超出限度了！
长大了，人就学会变通了。。
如何得到平衡点。。。只有自己知!
每个人是不一样的.
也许，已经超出我的限度了
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