一句的“可以帮我一件事吗？”
从要求者的口中，很容易因为他只认为是举手之劳，简单没什么问题的
被要求者，个人就比较的随便，可以的话就尽量的帮到底。。
一而再在而三的，重复的听到同一句话。。
开始不胜其烦。。。
这个叫得寸进尺，还是渐渐的有利用对方的成分？
帮助一个人，不是胡乱或盲目的去帮
要看对方需不需要，或对与错
例如：你借钱给一个挥霍的人，或借钱给一个三餐不温饱的人。。
哪一个应该帮呢？
助人为快乐之本，从小就被灌输的道德观念
长大了，就懂得转变。。
需要保护，也需要付出。。
My study has come to the full stop. After the submission of my final year project, I thought I will be delighted, yet I wasn't. I was apathetic. No more motivation to complete it, I already forgotten my achievement goals, I have given up. During the phase of life, I felt Life is just ain't about perfection. Imperfection in life is the essence of our growth. In order to grow, old proverb saying "no pain, no gain", it indeed applies to everyone of us. Being through thick and thin, sweat and tears, I started to realise that adaptation to sudden change is incredibly important. For instance, we have a goal to get a First Class Honour in our degree program, but our result speaks no to us. Is it show that we are stupid? Nope, it only tells us that it is a piece of paper which might granted us to obtain better job, yet which class you get is not the guarantee to get a better job. The end of college life, is the start of _______ life. People will fill in the blank themselves....
助人为快乐之本。。。。
ReplyDelete就好像，救人一命胜造七级浮屠。。。
不是不帮，只是超出限度了！
长大了，人就学会变通了。。
如何得到平衡点。。。只有自己知!
每个人是不一样的.
也许，已经超出我的限度了
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